Tell a loved one about the strengths that you see in them.

For example, my cat’s resting face is strong enough to put me on my best behavior… or worry about how he’s planning my demise. Either way, this kitty talks to me, let’s me know when he’s not amused, is loving, and is a bit pushy. His strong will had him sitting in my kids’ room demanding I pick him up. He waited 15 minutes before I gave in.
